Our society is fixated on assigning blame and pointing fingers; only when the culprit is found and "punished" we focus on finding a solution. While it is true that not every situation we come in contact with is entirely in our control, we are, however, in control of how we react to situations. And that is meant by taking self-responsibility. We then are ultimately in control of how we feel by the thoughts we think and thus how we act and behave. By switching our perception from blame to finding solutions and our language from a negative statement to a more positive one, we not only change our own energy but the energy that surrounds us. With time and practice, our life will change as we are attracting wellness and positive energy, prosperity, peace, and abundance.